Do you find most gay personal sites to be useless?

They are mostly all the same.It would cost thousands of dollars to get on each of them and do any good.Most of them will not let you make contact by email unless you subscribe.Yahoo Personals is free,but only if you want to just send little "icebreakers" that are retarded.I have a subscription,and it SUCKS!Trying to meet a guy around this redneck place is hard enough because they want "DISCREET" meetings and such.Or they just want to meet for ,then go back home to their wives.What has happened to romance?Where are the single guys who are lonely and want long term committment?It dont take a Calvin Klien supermodel to make someone happy.I'd like to know if anyone else has the same opinion of gay online personals.